Your Mid-Year Check-Up

No White Coat Required

By the time we reach the middle of the year, many of us have already scheduled—or survived—our annual wellness visit. We know the routine. Blood pressure. Weight. Questions about sleep, exercise, and whether we’re taking our medications. It’s a good reminder that our health deserves regular attention.

But what about the rest of our lives?

When was the last time you reviewed your goals, your plans, or that idea you were excited about back in January? Not your New Year’s resolutions—I gave up on those years ago. I’m talking about the hopes that made you think, “This is something I’d really like to do this year.”

“The older I get, the less interested I am in making a long list of resolutions. Life has taught me that January doesn’t have a monopoly on fresh starts. Sometimes July is exactly when we need one.”

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Maybe it’s time for a different kind of wellness visit.

Three weeks ago, my friends accomplished something they’d been working toward for years. They sold their family home of 30+ years and downsized. After moving 40 miles to be closer to their grandchildren, the real work began, making this new house a home. Over the past few years, they made interim steps toward the goal. They made strategic improvements to their home to increase the value, identified a realtor that specialized in their area, and decided where they wanted to move.

Researchers have spent decades studying goals and discovered something surprisingly simple: we’re more likely to make progress when we decide where we’re headed.

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What Gets Measured Gets Managed

I first heard this concept during my corporate career. I assumed it belonged in conference rooms and annual reports. Over the years I’ve realized that this business mantra belongs just as much in our personal lives as it ever did in a 1980s boardroom.

The idea is to turn vague intentions (i.e. “I want to lose weight”) into actionable, tracked metrics (“I am going to make an appointment with the dietician by Thursday to create a meal plan to lose 15 pounds before Thanksgiving.”)

Today, almost everything can be measured. Our watches count our steps. Our phones tell us how much time we spend staring at screens. Our banking apps remind us exactly where our money went last month.

But the things that matter most—our dreams, relationships, creativity, and purpose—don’t come with dashboards. Those require us to pause, reflect, and ask ourselves a few honest questions.

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Life Gets in the Way

“Maybe your year didn’t unfold the way you expected. Health changed. Family needed you. Work changed. Life happened. This isn’t about grading yourself. It’s about deciding where you’d like to go from here.”

Instead of giving you five answers, I’d rather leave you with five questions.

1. What has gone better than you expected this year?

2. What idea, task, or plan has quietly slipped away?

3. What still matters enough to finish?

4. What can you let go of without guilt?

5. What is one thing you could accomplish that would make December 2026 more satisfying?

After you finish reading today, write down one thing you’d still like to accomplish before the calendar turns to January. Not ten things. Just one. Small enough to begin this week and meaningful enough that your future self will be glad you started.

Consider this your 2026 wellness visit—for your dreams.